Berman, Ruth, 1934-

Ruth Berman and Connie Kurtz with their daughters, n.d.

Ruth Berman was born in Brooklyn, NY on March 30, 1934 to Jeanette Zahner and Milton Green. She graduated from Thomas Jefferson High School in 1951 and went on to earn her B.S. (1955) and her M.S. (1958) in Health and Physical Education from Brooklyn College. From 1971 to 1974, she was employed as a teacher and administrator at various middle schools and high schools in the New York City area, and at Brooklyn College as adjunct professor.

Constance Kurtz was born July 19, 1936 to Rose Levy and Elias Levy. After graduating from high school, she worked in Brooklyn, NY and in Jerusalem, Israel; her job descriptions have included bookkeeper and election campaign volunteer. Ruthie and Connie met in their Brooklyn neighborhood in the late 1950s and became fast friends; both were in traditional marriages and both had children. In 1970, Connie moved to Israel with her family. When Connie returned to the U.S. for a visit in 1974, she and Berman fell in love and began the challenging process of coming out, divorcing their husbands, and beginning a life together as a lesbian couple. The process propelled them into becoming politically active for gay and lesbian rights, and in 1988 they sued the New York City Board of Education for domestic partner benefits (Berman was a health and physical education teacher at a Brooklyn high school), winning the landmark case in 1994.

Both Berman and Kurtz are certified counselors and in that capacity founded The Answer is Loving Counseling Center, where they have served for over twenty years. They travel widely, offering workshops that focus on skill-building towards a more functional life, including workshops for gays and lesbians and their families. They have started branches of Parents, Friends and Family of Lesbians and Gays (PFLAG) in Florida and New York. They also run a T-shirt business: Not So Subtle Ts, and they host a web site (ruthieandconnie.com). In 2000, they began serving as co-chairs of the New York State NOW Lesbian Rights Task Force, and they are members of the GLBT synagogue of the Congregation Beth Simchot Torah. Ruthie and Connie have appeared on national radio and television, including The Donohue Show, Geraldo Rivera, Bill Boggs, and WBAI. In 2002, filmmaker Deborah Dickson made a documentary film about Berman and Kurtz, titled Connie and Ruth: Every Room in the House (produced by Donald Goldmacher).

From the guide to the Ruth Berman and Connie Kurtz Papers MS 520., 1956-2006, (Sophia Smith Collection)

Lesbian activists; Counselors.

Ruth Berman was born in Brooklyn, N.Y., 1934. She earned her B.S. (1955) and her M.S. (1958) in Health and Physical Education from Brooklyn College. From 1971 to 1974 she was a teacher and administrator at various middle schools and high schools in the New York City area, and at Brooklyn College as adjunct professor. Constance Kurtz was born 1936 and after graduating from high school, she worked in Brooklyn, NY and in Jerusalem, Israel. Her job descriptions have included bookkeeper and election campaign volunteer. Ruthie and Connie met in their Brooklyn neighborhood in the late 1950s and in 1974 they began the challenging process of coming out, divorcing their husbands, and beginning a life together as a lesbian couple. They have been politically active for gay and lesbian rights, and in 1988 they sued the New York City Board of Education for domestic partner benefits (Berman was a health and physical education teacher at a Brooklyn high school), winning the landmark case in 1994. Berman and Kurtz are certified counselors and founded The Answer is Loving Counseling Center; they started branches of Parents, Friends and Family of Lesbians and Gays (PFLAG) in Florida and New York; and in 2000, they began serving as co-chairs of the New York State NOW Lesbian Rights Task Force. In 2002, filmmaker Deborah Dickson made a documentary film about Berman and Kurtz, titled "Connie and Ruth: Every Room in the House" (produced by Donald Goldmacher).

From the description of Ruth Berman and Connie Kurtz Papers, 1956-2006 (Smith College). WorldCat record id: 191853229